I was talking to a friend about practical applications of Law of Attraction. We concluded that the bottomline is “You have to learn to manage your vibration (thoughts and feelings)” – period. Or “suffer the consequences!”
Suffer the consequences?
If you want a life that is fun, that is filled with pleasure, satisfaction, success and happiness, then you have to get your act together when it comes to “managing your vibration”.
If you don’t, what’s the alternative? Struggle, frustration, continuing irritations and escalating problems (e.g. finances, health, relationships, business, work, and so forth). Not pretty!
So how do you get your act together when it comes to vibration?
First of all. Realize that it’s a learning process. It’s an incremental learning process. And that means you will have both “successes and failures” as you are mastering this vital life skill.
Analogy – learning to ride a bike
Learning to ride a bike is an excellent analogy. The first time you get on a bike you don’t instantly start jumping over obstacles, doing spins and turns and “no hands” acts. Of course not. What do you do? You probably somewhat tentatively hoist yourself onto the bike and start to balance. You might even have a friend who helps to keep the bike steady. Or have extra training wheels attached for balance. You understand that it will take some time to learn to balance and to direct the bike in the direction you want it to go. You will of course fall off. At times it will seem to you that the bike has a mind of its own – as it careers off to one side. In time you find yourself gradually developing confidence. And you find yourself developing better riding skills. With adequate practise, eventually you feel both confident and competent riding a bike.
This is the exact same mindset you need when learning how to become a conscious creator who knows how to direct energy in the form of vibration (thoughts and feelings), In the early stages you’re going to “fall off”. Things don’t necessarily turn out as you hope. No worries. You’re a student of conscious creation. You’re learning how to work – effectively and efficiently – with vibration and Law of Attraction. Relax, chill! You have a lifetime to become a masterful practitioner.
Your feelings are a vital clue
Your feelings are a vital clue. Becoming aware of how you really feel is essential – if you want to be a conscious creator. Why? Because LOA is responding to how you are feeling in every minute. And if you look around you, you will see “evidence” of that. It may come in the form of a fun interaction with someone or the parking space you find easily or easy flowing traffic or a helpful shop assistant or a smiling baby or the person you want to speak to is available or you win a prize or someone buys you lunch or dinner or invites you to the movies or you get discounted tickets to a concert or an upgrade on a flight or someone offers to help you with a project you’re working on – and so on.
However if your vibration has been leaning towards the negative end of the scale then you may find yourself spilling your coffee or tearing a T-shirt or stubbing your toe or banging your head as you get out of the car or someone being short-tempered with you or the neighbor turning up the volume on their sound system or you get a parking fine or step into a hole and trip or your kids or pets are out of control or you burn dinner or your partner forgets your birthday – and so on.
What’s the common denominator?
In the first example, they are things you want. Things that please you. In the second example, they are things that you don’t want. Things that don’t please you.
Both the “wanted” and the “unwanted” stuff are your “vibrational clues”. They are “manifestational evidence”. They are “cold, hard proof” in physical terms. They are giving you feedback about your current vibration. If you like what is happening around you then great! That’s feedback that you’re on the positive end of the “emotional pendulum”.
And conversely if you don’t like what’s happening to you or around you, that’s also feedback. And that’s great too! Why? Because it’s feedback that you are hovering more around the negative end of the “emotional pendulum” – vibrationally speaking.
Managing negative emotions
So what do you do if you find yourself on the negative – the unwanted – receiving end of vibration? Do you stubbornly assert your “position” and “stick to your guns”? Do you do battle? Or do you pause. Take a deep breath. Smile at yourself! And then regroup to a better feeling position? Do you stop the inner struggle – the negative feelings? And turn your attention to something that makes you feel better?
Well of course, what you do is your choice. But none of us can ignore the “manifestational feedback” we get – indefinitely. We can try. We can pretend it’s “not our fault”. We can play the victim – the helpless one. But eventually we reap what we sow – again vibrationally speaking. Negative emotions lead to negative (unwanted) results. Positive emotions lead to positive (wanted) results.
How long will it take?
Now are you going to master this in a single day? No way! You’ve got a lifetime to master this. But the sooner you develop at least a reasonable level of competency, then the sooner you will begin living the life you prefer. Is your life going to “perfect”? No way! You will continue refining your knowledge and expertise until the day you die.
Becoming more sensitive to how you feel
Become aware of how you are feeling in each moment. Become more sensitive to what you pay attention to and focus on – and to your reactions. Listen to your emotions. They are your best friends.
Manifestations are just feedback
And remember that manifestations are not sent to punish you or test you. They are simply a reflection – feedback – of your dominant vibration (thoughts and feelings).
It’s the same as seeing your reflection in a mirror. If you look in a mirror and see your hair is messy, you don’t shout at the mirror and tell it to tidy your hair. You get a comb and tidy your hair.
The exact same principle applies to manifestations and LOA. Think of manifestations and LOA as your “mirrors”. They are reflecting back to you – quite literally – what you are thinking and how you are feeling. They are reflecting your dominant vibration back to you in the form of people you meet and events in your life.
Bottomline – If you want a life you truly love then “You have to learn to manage your vibration (thoughts and feelings) – period. It’s not negotiable! But it is well worth the effort to master. It is your key to ultimate personal freedom – be that financial, health, relationships, work, business or creatively. You can learn to control what you attract.